Victoria Cuore is a Wife & Mom | Founder & CEO | Author | Podcast Host | Coach | Digital Content Creator and this weeks’ Women in Business featured interview
Tell us a little bit about yourself and what you do professionally.
Hello! I’m Victoria, a dedicated wife and proud mom who believes in the power of resilience and transformation. As a survivor of domestic violence, my journey has been profoundly challenging, marked by strength and determination. I have undergone over 100 surgeries to correct the damage caused by my abuser, but these experiences have only fueled my commitment to empowering others.
As the Founder and CEO of my organization, I focus on creating impactful resources and safe spaces for individuals navigating the complexities of trauma and recovery. With over 19 years of experience in advocacy, I have dedicated my career to raising awareness about the importance of mental health and fostering support for survivors. I am also an author, having penned several works, including my memoir, Who Kicked First, and the prequel, Narc Narc, Who’s There. Through my writing, I aim to inspire and provide practical tools for those on their healing journeys. In addition to writing, I host three podcasts that have remained in the top 2% globally for years. Each podcast is dedicated to different themes, where I engage in meaningful conversations with survivors, advocates, and experts. These episodes are designed to educate, inspire, and connect listeners with stories of hope and resilience. As a coach and content creator, I develop workshops and workbooks that offer emotional support and practical strategies for personal growth. My goal is to empower individuals to break the cycle of silence and embrace their healing journeys. In everything I do, I strive to foster a community where every story is valued, and every individual feels supported. Together, we can create a world where love, respect, and empowerment thrive.
What do you enjoy most about your profession and why did you choose it in the first place? What was the inspiration for your company/project?
What I enjoy most about my profession is the transformative power of connection and the ability to ignite hope within individuals. There’s nothing quite as fulfilling as witnessing someone step into their strength, embrace their story, and rediscover their worth. Each day, I am inspired by the resilience of those I work with, and I feel privileged to be part of their healing journeys.
It reaffirms my belief that every story matters and that sharing can lead to profound healing. Additionally, the creative avenues my profession offers, be it through writing, podcasting, or hosting workshops, allow me to express my passion for advocacy in dynamic ways. Crafting narratives that resonate with others and facilitate growth is a beautiful experience. Hearing from listeners and readers who feel empowered by our conversations fuels my drive to continue this vital work.
Why I Chose This Path
I chose this path because I believe that pain can be a catalyst for purpose. My own journey as a survivor of domestic violence taught me that adversity can lead to incredible strength and compassion. I realized that my experiences were not just mine to bear but also a source of inspiration for others. The moment I decided to share my story was transformative; it allowed me to reclaim my narrative and empower others to do the same. I believe that by embracing vulnerability, we can create a ripple effect of healing in our communities. This path was not just a choice; it was a calling to be a voice for the voiceless and to advocate for a world where everyone feels seen, heard, and valued.
Inspiration for My Company/Project
The inspiration for my company and projects blossomed from a deep-seated desire to create a sanctuary for healing. After experiencing the isolation and stigma that often accompanies trauma, I knew I had to build a space where survivors could find solace and strength. My vision was to cultivate a community where individuals could share their experiences without fear of judgment. A place where they could feel a profound sense of belonging.
I am driven by the belief that together; we can rewrite the narrative around domestic violence and trauma. Through my organization, I strive to provide resources, support, and a platform for healing, ensuring that no one has to navigate their journey alone. Every initiative I undertake is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the idea that love, respect, and empowerment can triumph over adversity. In this journey, I am continually inspired by the courage of those who join me, reminding me that our collective strength can create lasting change. Together, we can turn pain into purpose and foster a world where every individual can thrive.
Tell us about any new projects you have coming up (or recently completed).
I’m thrilled to share some exciting new projects that I am currently working on, as well as a few that I’ve recently completed!
- New Podcast Series: “Don’t Judge Me”
I just launched a new podcast series titled “Don’t Judge Me.” This series aims to spotlight the stories of diverse survivors from various backgrounds, showcasing their journeys of healing and empowerment. Each episode will feature candid conversations that delve into the challenges they faced, the lessons they learned, and the triumphs they achieved. My goal is to create a space where listeners can find inspiration and recognize the strength within themselves.
- Online Workshop Series
I am also developing an online workshop series called “Podcast Powerhouse Growth Academy.” Participants will have the opportunity to engage in interactive discussions, share their experiences, and connect with others on similar journeys. I believe that fostering community support is essential.
- Recent Book Release: “Narc Narc Who’s There”
My most recent book, which serves as a prequel to my memoir, “Who Kicked First,” is titled “Narc Narc Who’s There.” This book delves into the complexities of navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals and the impact they can have on our lives. It sets the stage for my memoir by exploring themes of identity, resilience, and the journey toward self-discovery. I’m excited to share these insights and hope they resonate with many readers.
4. Participation in Podcasthon
I am excited to announce that I will be a part of the Podcasthon, a worldwide charity event where we at A Contagious Smile will be podcasting for our favorite charity, Give Kids The World. This initiative is dedicated to providing memorable experiences for children with critical illnesses and their families. I can’t wait to contribute to this meaningful cause and connect with other podcasters who share the same passion for making a difference!
What is a typical day like for you?
A Typical Day in My Life
Morning Routine
- Early Start: My day often begins early, usually around 5AM, even though I get very little sleep, sometimes only about 4 hours on a good night. This lack of rest can make mornings challenging.
- Breakfast Together: One of the highlights of my morning is having breakfast made for me by my soul mate, husband, podcast co-host, and best friend, (Yes, I know how lucky I am).
- I feel incredibly lucky to share this couple time with him, connecting before our busy day begins.
Advocacy and Work
- Advocacy: I am passionate about advocating for survivors and special needs families. This advocacy work drives much of what I do, as I strive to create awareness and support within the community.
- Podcasting: I host, produce, and market three top 2% global podcasts, including my new series, “Don’t Judge Me.” As well as “Narc Narc Who’s There, Help I’m Gasping For Air.” And “A Contagious Smile’s Unstoppable.” We also have “A Contagious Smile’s Teen Talk.” Managing this takes dedication, but it allows me to share important stories and connect with a wider audience.
- Marketing Success: I take pride in marketing my company, which has grown from zero followers to multimillions. This remarkable growth reflects my commitment to building a strong brand and connecting with our audience.
- Content Creation: I invest time in creating digital marketing materials, courses, and workbooks that empower others. Currently, I am also working on my latest book and workbook, which are close to my heart.
Homeschooling
- Homeschooling My Daughter: One of the most rewarding aspects of my day is homeschooling my beautiful special needs daughter. This role brings me immense joy as I adapt learning to fit her unique needs, fostering her growth and development in a nurturing environment.
Community Engagement
- Outreach: I work on organizing community events and workshops, raising awareness about domestic violence and mental health. I focus on making these initiatives accessible and impactful.
- Networking: Connecting with fellow podcasters, authors, and advocates is vital. I find ways to engage with them, even if it requires more effort than before.
Personal Time
- Limited Personal Time: I hardly get any personal time at all. My days are filled with responsibilities and commitments, leaving little opportunity for self-care or relaxation. Especially now that everything takes me so much longer since I became a BEA, Below Elbow Amputee two years ago.
- However, we eat every meal as a family. That means no electronics at the table, no hats and no EarPods. We actually talk to one another and discuss our day.
Evening
- I work up and past bedtimes. I crawl into bed every night with my husband and once he is asleep, it’s back to work I go.
Tell us about your community involvement – what you are passionate about outside of work and home and why/how you participate?
Annual Fundraising Initiatives
- Beginning with Faith: Our fundraising efforts began when our daughter, Faith, was just 4 years old. This initiative not only honors her journey but also serves as a platform to raise awareness and support for families in need.
- Purpose: The funds and other items raised go towards various causes, focusing on survivors of domestic violence, families in crisis, and organizations that support special needs children. This effort has become a cherished family tradition, fostering a sense of community and compassion.
Contributions to Shelters
- Supporting Domestic Violence Shelters: We actively contribute to shelters that provide refuge for survivors of domestic violence. This involvement includes donating essential items like clothing, hygiene products, and food supplies, ensuring that these families have what they need during difficult times.
- Impact: By supporting these shelters, we aim to create a safe environment for those in crisis, helping them transition to a more stable and secure life.
Restocking Make-A-Wish Closet
- Local Chapter Support: We have also taken steps to restock our local chapter of Make-A-Wish’s closet. This initiative allows us to contribute to fulfilling the wishes of children with critical illnesses, bringing joy and hope to families during challenging times.
Ongoing Commitment
- Building Awareness: Each year, our fundraising efforts and contributions to shelters and organizations to help raise awareness about the challenges faced by survivors and families in crisis. We strive to engage others in our cause, encouraging them to join our efforts.
- Creating a Legacy: Our commitment to these causes not only impacts those we help but also teaches our daughter the value of giving back and making a difference in the lives of others.
What is the biggest risk you ever took professionally and/or the biggest obstacle you have overcome?
Biggest Professional Risk: Sharing My Story
Coming Forward with My Story
- Making the Decision: The biggest professional risk I took was coming forward to share my personal story. This decision was not made lightly, as it involved exposing vulnerable aspects of my life and experiences, particularly regarding my journey with domestic violence and advocating for special needs families.
- Fear of Judgment: There was a significant fear of judgment and potential backlash from sharing such intimate details publicly. I worried about how my story would be perceived by others, both personally and professionally.
Impact of Sharing
- Empowerment: Taking this risk ultimately became an empowering experience. By sharing my story, I not only found my voice but also connected with others who have faced similar challenges. This created a sense of community and support that was incredibly rewarding.
- Raising Awareness: My openness helped to raise awareness about important issues, including domestic violence and the experiences of families with special needs. It sparked conversations that needed to happen and encouraged others to share their stories, fostering a culture of understanding and empathy.
Professional Growth
- Building Credibility: Sharing my story has helped build my credibility as an advocate. It allowed me to establish myself as a relatable figure in the community, someone who genuinely understands the struggles faced by many.
- Inspiring Others: By taking this risk, I have inspired others to come forward and share their own stories, reinforcing the idea that there is strength in vulnerability and that our experiences can lead to positive change.
From where do you draw inspiration? Who have been your role models, mentors, etc?
Heartfelt and Inspirational Sources of Strength
My Husband: My Unwavering Support
Without a doubt, my husband is my unwavering support and my greatest ally. He sees me not just for the challenges I face but for the person I am at my core. In moments when I feel overwhelmed by the scars and artificial devices I depend on to navigate life, he looks beyond them and embraces the spirit within me. His love is a gentle reminder that I am more than my struggles—I am a warrior, capable of overcoming anything. He stands by my side, encouraging me to rise above adversity and reminding me that together, we can conquer the mountains in our path. His belief in me fuels my own belief in myself, and for that, I am eternally grateful.
My Daughter, Faith: A Source of Light
Then there’s my daughter, Faith, who embodies strength and resilience in ways I could never have imagined. Having faced over 50 surgeries, she has transformed her trials into triumphs, and her spirit shines like a beacon of hope. Each day, she teaches me what it means to fight with grace and courage. Her laughter and zest for life inspire me to embrace every moment and to turn obstacles into opportunities. She is a living testament to the power of hope and determination, reminding me that even in the darkest times, there is always light to be found. Faith’s journey motivates me to advocate for others and to celebrate the beauty of life, no matter how challenging it may seem.
Though my grandparents are no longer with us here on Earth, I think of them daily and miss them with all that I am. Their absence leaves a void that can never truly be filled, but their presence remains alive in my heart. Each memory, each lesson they imparted, continues to guide me as I navigate life’s journey. Missing them deeply is a testament to the profound impact they had on my life. I strive to honor their legacy by living each day with purpose and embracing the qualities they exemplified. I often pray that I am making them proud, carrying their lessons forward as I navigate the complexities of life. Their love continues to inspire me to be the best version of myself, nurturing my relationships and supporting those around me.
What’s the most important thing people should know about you?
The Most Important Thing to Know About Me
The most important thing people should know about me is that I am a resilient spirit. Life has presented its share of challenges, but I believe in the power of perseverance and the strength that comes from embracing vulnerability. Each scar, each setback, has shaped me into who I am today. A person who values connection, empathy, and the beauty of the human experience.
Embracing Vulnerability
I openly share my journey, including the struggles I face, because I believe that vulnerability fosters connection. By sharing my story, I hope to inspire others to embrace their own journeys and to remind them that they are not alone in their struggles. Sharing my experiences allows for deeper conversations and understanding, creating a supportive environment where we can uplift one another.
A Passion for Advocacy
Additionally, I am deeply passionate about advocacy and supporting others who may be facing similar challenges. My experiences have ignited a desire to be a voice for those who feel unheard and to champion the importance of resilience and self-acceptance. I aim to empower others to share their stories and to find strength in their vulnerabilities, knowing that together we can create a community of support and encouragement.
Love and Connection
Ultimately, what matters most to me is the connections I build with others. I cherish the relationships in my life, and I strive to nurture them with love, kindness, and authenticity. I believe that every interaction is an opportunity to learn, grow, and uplift one another.
What do you do to keep yourself sharp?
One of my primary focuses is lifelong learning. I engage with a variety of resources, such as books, articles, and online courses, to expand my knowledge and stay updated on topics that interest me. This not only keeps my mind active but also allows me to explore new ideas and perspectives.
Engaging with Others
Engaging in meaningful conversations with others is another way I keep myself sharp. Sharing ideas, discussing various topics, and learning from different perspectives enrich my understanding of the world around me. I value the connections I build, and the insights gained from these interactions.
Creative Outlets
Finally, I explore creative outlets to stimulate my mind. Whether it’s writing, or trying my hand at a new hobby, engaging in creative activities allows me to express myself and think outside the box. This creative exploration fuels my passion and keeps my mind agile.
What one thing have you done in the past year that has made a significant difference in your life/your business?
In the past year, one significant action that made a considerable difference in my life was releasing my prequel. This milestone not only marked a creative achievement but also had a profound impact on my personal growth and professional journey.
Creative Expression
Releasing my prequel allowed me to express my creativity in a meaningful way. It was an opportunity to delve into the backstory of my memoir.
Personal Growth
This endeavor challenged me to step outside of my comfort zone. I had to confront my fears of judgment and embrace vulnerability by sharing my work with the world. The experience taught me resilience and the importance of believing in my voice and vision.
Professional Development
From a professional standpoint, releasing my prequel has enhanced my visibility and credibility as a writer. It has opened up opportunities for collaboration, networking, and further projects. This momentum fuels my drive to continue creating and sharing my stories.
What one thing would you like to learn this year?
Active Listening
- Understand Their Goals: Take the time to listen to their dreams and aspirations. Understanding what they truly want can help you provide more tailored support.
- Empathize: Show empathy and validate their feelings and experiences. Sometimes, just knowing someone is there to listen can boost their confidence.
Provide Guidance and Resources
- Share Knowledge: Offer your insights and expertise related to their goals. Whether it’s career advice, educational resources, or practical skills, your guidance can be invaluable.
- Connect Them with Resources: Help them find resources such as books, courses, or networking opportunities that align with their dreams.
. Encouragement and Motivation
- Be Their Cheerleader: Encourage them regularly and celebrate their progress, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement can inspire them to keep moving forward.
- Help Them Set Realistic Goals: Assist them in breaking down their larger dreams into smaller, manageable goals to make the journey less overwhelming.
Mentorship
- Offer Mentorship: If you have experience in their area of interest, consider offering to mentor them. Share your journey, lessons learned, and practical advice along the way.
- Be Available: Make yourself available for questions or check-ins to provide ongoing support and accountability.
Create a Supportive Environment
- Foster a Positive Atmosphere: Surround them with positivity and support. Encourage collaboration and connection with others who share similar dreams.
- Encourage Networking: Help them build connections with others in their desired field. Networking can open doors and provide new opportunities.
How would you describe yourself in a single sentence?
I am a Pitbull, fiercely advocating for the voiceless and standing beside you throughout your journey, providing unwavering support and strength.
Where do you see yourself in 5 years?
In five years, I see myself living in my forever home surrounded by my family, continuing to advocate passionately for those without a voice and writing to inspire and uplift others.
What do you do for fun/relaxation/entertainment?
I love being with my family and our three golden retrievers, we enjoy cozy movie nights and engaging gaming sessions together.
Is there anything else you would like to share with our readers?
It’s important to remember that each of us has the power to make a positive impact in the lives of others. If you have the ability to support those in need, whether through volunteering, advocacy, or simply offering a listening ear, I encourage you to do so. Together, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world.
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