“It is really important that women know ourselves, preferably before we commit to a lifelong partner. If they have no strong self -feeling, it is very easy to expect what their partner expects. And therefore many of my heroines are older. [she doesn’t] wants a man to just be there [her] Life. I think the basis of a romantic relationship begins with self -love. Therefore, in Soledad’s book (that could be us), everything about love, a book in which she really leaned into. If you do not have the basis for loving yourself, if you go into a relationship, all these emotions can bring you into a form that fits the person with whom you are. “
