It is another day that ends in “Y” and you know that that means – it’s time to talk about sex toys! Especially sex toys for couples.
If you and your partner are looking for new opportunities to explore your sharpness together, sex toys can choose the heat between leaves – or wherever you get them (winks).
Pretty much every sex toy can be a fair game for couples. However, there are certain toys that have been put in mind with partners. Think of dual vibration devices, penis rings and even toys that you can switch from a different time zone.
Thanks to all the online retailers out there, you can have most sex toys delivered directly to your door. However, shopping with your partner for sex toys is always a good idea, so you are both on the same side about what you like and with which you feel comfortable.
After all, nothing unpleasant says like a surprising snap, said pretty much everyone we know.
“It’s about really finding what both works for both,” said Heather Bartos, Md, Ob-Gyn, host of the sex podcast and member of the Health Advisory Council of Healthywomen.
Among other things, Bartos examines the advantages of sex and toys in her new book, quickies: one hundred lessons because they live sexy in the middle of life. Chapter 59, “Why you should insert a C ** K ring on it” is particularly fascinating.
“If you try something new, dopamine and dopamine create the brain’s amusement center. So if we try something new like a sex toy or cosplay, dopamine manages and it is interesting and brings novelty back, and novelty keeps the bedroom fresh and alive.”
Check for imperfections before using a toy. Bartos said he should run his hands over the surface to feel for chips, cracks or rough spots that may violate super sensitive areas (we know – we know – but that’s the point!) And keep your toys clean to avoid infections. Most intimate props can be cleaned with mild soap and water, unless otherwise stated.
With so many sex toys in the sea, we asked Bartos for types of sex toys with which you and your partner may want to work on your love island:
Penis rings
Now we get the whole “ring on it”. These circular miracles are worn at the foot of the penis to keep it upright. This means longer erections and more time for you to enjoy the journey to the big o.
Penis rings are not newly available for centuries-and were used to be made from very non-sexy stuff like goat-eyes. Fortunately, today’s rings are developed and typically made of silicone or metal and can contain vibration characteristics that stimulate the clitoris during sex. Basically a free -handed, built -in vibrator that stimulates both partners. Double bonus: vibrating rings are not exclusive to a penis – they also work with fingers and toys.
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Strap-on-dildos
If you want to channel your inner callie from the hunting women or just change upwards, a penis prosthesis can help to develop the penetration – also called Pegging. “This can also happen with two women, but it is the idea that they give someone else, and it is a nice change for the man to think about receiving and what it feels like,” said Bartos.
Strap-on-dildos usually look like Jock carriers and are available in different sizes. Bartos noticed that they couldn’t try it before buying it. So it is a good idea to start small and build up.
Vibrators
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Vibrators are one of the most popular sex toys for couples – and if you are a fan of “personal massages”, you know why. All of these good vibrations stimulate the vagina, which increases the excitement and lubrication and chances of an orgasm (yes, please!).
Vibrators are very versatile – you can use them in other parts of the body, play around with the type of vibration and turn around with your partner. In fact, thanks to some app-capable toys, your partner does not even have to be in the same country to take part in the vibrator period.
In personal, penetrative sex, U-shaped vibrators are the point of contact for double stimulation. And while vibrators can be a good accompanying piece, Bartos noticed that it is important to remember that it is a robot. “Bring out the vibrator as part of it, but not only rely on the vibrator as the only source of passion or orgasm for either partner.”
Costumes
Maybe your partner is the new superhero on the block that wants to rock her world. Or you are the sexy doctor who has just come home from a satisfactory day where women helped to make sound decisions about their health. (This is hot!)
Role games can be an easy way for partners to try something new and props such as Whips, handcuffs – stethoscopes – everything to pump the heart.
And you don’t have to spend or surpass much. Do you know this special Halloween shop that appears every year? Take your person there and see what you both like in your budget. Or browse for ideas.
“It makes a funny thing to choose costumes together. And it doesn’t matter what they look like as long as they are ready to go there and they are willing to make fun of themselves and laugh at the situation. It doesn’t have to be serious,” said Bartos.
Toy problems
Sex toys can bring your sex life fun and adventure, but if you do the only thing you do, you may want to consider. “If the woman is just a pleasure about a sex toy and the partner does not work to fix it – that’s a red flag,” said Bartos.
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