Breakups of any kind are never easy, but I’d argue that a friendship breakup can be more devastating than a romantic one. Whether you lose a friend from a bad fight or simply drift apart over the years, you still grieve that relationship in the same way you would a partner. The only difference is people haven’t always talked about friendship breakups as openly as romantic ones. But if you ask me, the end of a friendship is far more painful and difficult to recover from than parting ways with a significant other.
Our zodiac signs can tell us a lot about the significant relationships in our lives, romantic or platonic. If you’ve ever gone through a friendship breakup, the stars might have some insight into why you—or your former friend—act the way you do when things come to an end. These four signs are the most likely to experience a friendship going up in flames, but keep reading to find out how to fix things before it’s too late.
Gemini
Geminis find it easy to make new friends, but holding onto those friendships can be more challenging. Their desire for new adventures means they might jump from one interest or person to the next. When the friendship starts to get too deep or uncomfortable for a Gemini, they may take it as a sign to bolt. This air sign also tends to get stuck in their own heads about how others perceive them, which may cause them to lash out in an argument. For any Geminis hoping to repair a broken friendship, think about how to show the people who matter most to you that you care. If there is still hope, your friends will notice the effort you’re putting into deepening your connection instead of keeping one foot out the door.
Leo
It’s no secret that Leos like to be the center of attention, but this trait isn’t inherently a bad thing. While their tendency to brag might make them come across as overbearing or self-absorbed to other people, Leos are actually very loyal in their friendships. They just don’t always understand how much work it takes to maintain a genuine connection. If you’re a Leo on the brink of a friendship breakup, try being a better listener. Your friends want their accomplishments celebrated as much as you do, so give them equal chances to be in the spotlight.
Scorpio
Out of all the zodiac signs, Scorpios are the most mysterious. They’re known for their need to be in control, and they will do whatever it takes to get what they want. When it comes to friendships, a Scorpio takes a long time to open up, but they form authentic connections when they do. They’re also prone to jealousy, especially when their friends have other close relationships. If they feel like someone has betrayed them, Scorpios are quick to hold a grudge. To any Scorpio reading this, letting people in isn’t as scary as you think. The right friend won’t be put off by your true self, and their other connections don’t lessen yours.
Pisces
This water sign can change their behavior dramatically based on which circles they’re running in. Regardless of who they’re close to, they love their friends very deeply, but not always in the healthiest ways. Pisces’ undying loyalty can sometimes veer into codependency. They’re the type to avoid conflict at all costs but still expect friends to read their mind when they’re upset. Pisces may not get angry easily, but they let their resentment build up until it explodes. If you’re a Pisces who wants to save a severed tie, you need to start having the hard conversations. I know you don’t like criticism, but honest conversations with your friends are better than holding onto issues until the relationship is beyond repair.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Hannah Carapellotti, Contributing Writer
Hannah is an Ann Arbor-based writer with a bachelor’s in English and writing from the University of Michigan. Outside of The Everygirl, Hannah has written for The Michigan Daily, where she also served as an editor. She currently works at an independent bookstore and is interning for a literary agency.